kindlybutfirmly

adverb
UK /ˈkaɪndli bʌt ˈfɜːmli/
US /ˈkaɪndli bʌt ˈfɜːrmli/

In a nice way that still makes the rules clear.

She kindlybutfirmly told the children it was time to put the toys away.


OTHER MEANINGS

2. With warmth and care while still holding to a clear limit or expectation.

The teacher kindlybutfirmly reminded the class about the quiet rule.

3. Showing understanding of someone's feelings without giving in to unreasonable demands.

He kindlybutfirmly declined the extra request and explained why.

4. Using a soft tone of voice to deliver a clear, non-negotiable message.

The nurse kindlybutfirmly asked visitors to leave so the patient could rest.