politelybutfirmly

adverb

UK /pəˈlaɪtli bʌt ˈfɜːmli/

US /pəˈlaɪtli bʌt ˈfɜːrmli/

Saying something in a nice way but making it clear you really mean it.

She politelybutfirmly told the noisy kids to quiet down.

SYNONYMS

kindly but seriously courteously but decisively graciously but resolutely gently but definitely

RELATED WORDS

assertive respectful clear direct calm

OTHER MEANINGS

2. Refusing something in a friendly way without changing your mind.

He politelybutfirmly declined the extra dessert.

3. Asking for something in a kind voice while expecting it to happen.

The teacher politelybutfirmly asked for everyone's attention.

4. Setting a rule in a gentle way that leaves no room for arguing.

Mom politelybutfirmly said it was time for bed.