gentlybutfirmly
adverbUK /ˌdʒentli bʌt ˈfɜːmli/
US /ˌdʒentli bʌt ˈfɜːrmli/
Doing something in a kind way but still making sure it happens.
She gently but firmly told the puppy to sit.
OTHER MEANINGS
2. Being nice while still keeping a rule.
The teacher gently but firmly reminded us to be quiet.
3. Saying no in a polite but clear way.
He gently but firmly said no to another cookie.
4. Helping someone without being harsh.
The nurse gently but firmly helped the child sit still.