firmlybutkindly

adverb
UK /ˈfɜːmli bʌt ˈkaɪndli/
US /ˈfɜːrmli bʌt ˈkaɪndli/

Doing something in a strong way but still being nice.

She firmlybutkindly told the children it was time to stop playing and come inside.


OTHER MEANINGS

2. Setting a clear limit while showing care and respect.

The teacher firmlybutkindly reminded the class about the rules.

3. Saying no in a way that is strong yet warm.

He firmlybutkindly declined the extra dessert.

4. Correcting someone without being harsh or mean.

The coach firmlybutkindly pointed out the mistake and showed how to fix it.