sternandtender
adjectiveUK /stɜːn ənd ˈtɛndə/
US /stɝːn ənd ˈtɛndɚ/
Being both strict and gentle at the same time.
The coach was stern and tender, pushing the kids to try hard but hugging them when they fell.
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2. Showing a serious face while having a soft heart.
Her stern and tender look told us she meant business but still loved us.
3. A mix of rules and warmth in how someone treats others.
Grandpa's stern and tender way made everyone respect him and feel safe.
4. Being tough on the outside and gentle on the inside.
The teacher's stern and tender style helped the class learn and feel happy.