firmbutkind
adjectiveUK /ˌfɜːm bʌt ˈkaɪnd/
US /ˌfɜːrm bʌt ˈkaɪnd/
Being firm but kind means you stick to your rules while still being nice.
The teacher was firmbutkind when she told the class to quiet down.
OTHER MEANINGS
2. Setting clear limits without being mean.
Her firmbutkind approach helped the kids feel safe.
3. Saying no in a way that still shows love.
He gave a firmbutkind answer when his son asked for more candy.
4. Being strong and fair at the same time.
The coach was firmbutkind after the team lost the game.