kindly-firm

adjective
UK /ˈkaɪndli fɜːm/
US /ˈkaɪndli fɜːrm/

Being nice but still making the rules clear.

The teacher gave a kindly-firm reminder to put toys away.


OTHER MEANINGS

2. Saying no in a polite way that does not change.

She gave a kindly-firm no to the extra cookie.

3. Helping someone while still holding them to a promise.

His kindly-firm coach made him finish the lap.

4. Being loving without letting someone be unkind.

The parent's kindly-firm voice stopped the arguing.

5. A calm way of keeping order that feels safe.

The librarian's kindly-firm shush kept the room quiet.