softbutsure
adjectiveUK /ˌsɒft bʌt ˈʃʊə/
US /ˌsɔft bʌt ˈʃʊr/
Doing something in a gentle way but still being very sure about it.
She gave a softbutsure nod that told everyone the plan was final.
OTHER MEANINGS
2. Speaking in a low, kind voice while making a clear decision.
His softbutsure answer ended the argument without any shouting.
3. Moving slowly and carefully but never stopping.
The turtle's softbutsure crawl still got it to the finish line first.
4. A way of being kind that still sets a clear limit.
Mom's softbutsure 'no' meant bedtime was not going to change.