softorder

noun
UK /ˈsɒftˌɔːdə/
US /ˈsɔːftˌɔːrdər/

A softorder is a gentle way of asking for things to be done.

The teacher used a softorder to ask the class to line up quietly.


OTHER MEANINGS

2. A rule that is not strict and can be bent.

Wearing hats is a softorder at the park, not a hard rule.

3. A quiet signal that tells people what to do.

The coach gave a softorder with his hand to start the game.

4. A way of organizing things gently without pushing.

The librarian's softorder kept the books neat without any fuss.