harrowing

adjective
UK /ˈhær.əʊ.ɪŋ/
US /ˈher.oʊ.ɪŋ/

Something harrowing is very scary or upsetting to go through.

The family told a harrowing story about the storm.


OTHER MEANINGS

2. Causing great emotional pain or suffering over a long time.

She had a harrowing year after losing her job.

3. Extremely difficult and tiring to experience.

The climb down the mountain was a harrowing journey.

4. In farming, the act of breaking up soil with a harrow.

Harrowing the field helped the seeds grow.