gentleandself-protective

adjective
UK /ˈdʒentl ənd ˌself prəˈtektɪv/
US /ˈdʒentl ənd ˌself prəˈtektɪv/

Being kind and soft while also keeping yourself safe.

The gentleandself-protective puppy wagged its tail but stayed close to its mother.


OTHER MEANINGS

2. Acting in a calm, non-hurtful way while avoiding harm to oneself.

Her gentleandself-protective reply kept the argument from growing.

3. Showing tenderness toward others without letting oneself be treated badly.

He was gentleandself-protective, helping his friend but refusing to be blamed.

4. Being soft in manner but quick to set safe limits.

The teacher's gentleandself-protective tone stopped the teasing at once.